The Tapestry of Friendship

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 The Tapestry of Friendship.

Sanskrit, the ancient language of India, offers a treasure trove of words for friendship, each capturing a different nuance. One such term is "maitrī", signifying the warm bond of understanding, kindness, and goodwill. Like this rich vocabulary, friendships are multifaceted, evolving and taking on various roles in our lives.

A stranger transformed into a confidante. A good friend who blossoms into a "sahodara", a brother from another mother, offering unwavering support like family through life's ups and downs. These "suhṛd" (good friends) are a blessing, showering us with unconditional love and trust, accepting our apologies and thanks with grace. They witness our vulnerabilities, share our joys, and choose to walk beside us even through our struggles, patiently enduring our occasional grumbles.

Sometimes, the most unexpected individuals can become profound advisors, the notorious transformed into the "gyani baba" (wise guide). These friends prioritize our well-being, setting aside their tasks to ensure ours are completed, exemplifying true selflessness. Yet, even the closest bonds evolve. Paths diverge, some companions leave at junctions, while others illuminate the right and wrong turns.

While good friends offer a strong shoulder, sharing deeply requires "Viveka" (discernment). Not everyone reciprocates openness, so avoid possessiveness or unrealistic expectations. True friendship transcends physical proximity; it endures despite distance. Seek genuine connections with those who support you through thick and thin, appreciating their presence without seeking constant validation.

Friendship, like life, is a tapestry woven with threads of laughter, tears, support, and understanding. Be grateful for the friends who colour your life, from childhood companions to those you meet on various journeys. Cherish them, nurture these bonds, and remember, 

"mithram.kartavyaṃ na mithyā"

 (friendship should be true, not false).

There is a say in Bhagavad Gita.

Nobody is nobody's friend, nobody is nobody's enemy. But it is only the behaviour by which one can understand who is his friend and who is his enemy." Nobody is born an enemy, nobody is born a friend. But by our mutual behaviour, somebody is my friend and somebody is my enemy.

While not everyone becomes a friend, each interaction holds the possibility of connection. Seek those who choose to build genuine bonds through their actions.

 -Prathamesh.Hankare.